As a teenager I routinely took this too far… And it always worked out great! People love when you’re casual around them and it made me feel more confident as well. I wouldn’t recommend going as far as Turtle though.
All tips from Leil Lowndes “How To Talk To Anyone” which helped me become the man I am today… Someone turning self help tips into comics for fun!
Hey,
currently I’m reading “How to talk to anybody” and I found your comics. They are neat. I have a question on greeting people. Obviously you try to make them feel special and give them 100% attention und warmth. But how would you recommend doing this, if you meet a group of people? Won’t they feel less special if you greet everyone like they are special (like it is a bit inflationary)?
Thanks !
I hear what you’re saying about it feeling inflationary, but if you’re greeting people with authenticity (which will grow over time as greeting people becomes more natural) then everyone will feel special.
I’d say to give it a try. Greet everyone with 100% attention and warmth and see what happens. In my experience it opens everyone up! Or even think back to when you met someone who was good at this — for me, I never mind that they greet everyone openly because all I really notice is that they treated ME so amazingly haha.
Thanks for reading the comics. Glad they can be a nice little companion piece.